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Cake day: December 31st, 2023

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  • Not necessarily - e.g. if you’ve been shitty to people in the past (I say “if” but we’ve literally all done that:-P) then that’s a natural process of growth to recognize that, hopefully make reparations and move toward healing, at least on your side but again hopefully on both.

    Then again, your “actions” are not always up to you - e.g. if traffic made you late somewhere then that’s at least partially out of your control - but you can only accept your own portion of responsibility there (reasonably anyway).

    Be careful with “Everything, always” language bc it’s always a lie:-|. e.g. I bet you could find a single instance, somewhere, where you did not do that. Perhaps find it and start to move forward from there?



  • It is conversations like these that make me glad I found the Fediverse:-). Rather than instantly lash out with hate from either of our side, we continued to discourse to get to the root of the issue and found common ground in our desire to preserve knowledge.:-) You know, a “conversation” rather than seeking opportunities for trolling.

    Whereas on Reddit I would not have bothered to say anything in the first place - that place is just a lost cause at this point:-(. Thank you for helping make this place worth coming to:-).