Truly beautiful.

Also, I think I’m in one of the black ones. Hard to be sure but awesome.

“cool guide” with an abundance of tropes, fears, guilt and shame.

Maybe that’s the best some people can do.

I agree with all of these, worth noting that they’re all likely to happen at some point in therapy just because we’re working on difficult stuff.

It’s when it’s a pattern of these things and the therapist is not noticing or addressing the pattern that it’s a red flag.

This is why we have supervision to reflect and evaluate our work!

There’s a couple of these I didn’t know and I will find very useful!